Hye, assalamualaikum. This is my first entry for this blog, as I often thought about my ex-boyfriend lately, so I would like to share how to move on easily, without being depressed of hopeless. First of all, this is my first love, and I have couple with him for 3 years. Sure, I love him and break up with him make me down. But, that's not long. Now, , I can live happily and happier than before, where I was with him. Alhamdulillah, thank you Allah.
Okay, back to the topic, this is some tips to move on easily.
- THINK POSITIVE
- when you have been dumb by your lover, be positive. "JODOH is Allah's Provision". No matter how strong your love, Allah is the decisive.
- Even though you break up with him now, if Allah says he is your jodoh, then he will be yours soon.
- HANG OUT WITH YOUR FRIENDS
- don't let the sadness go on your feet, find the happiness. Hang out with your friend and don't ever think about your ex. Or else, you can share with your close friend to reduce the burden and get some advice and support.
- DO THINGS YOU LOVE
- do more activities to not think about him such as watching cartoon, drawing, and anything you like. If you're doing something that can make you happy or don't have time to think about unimportant things, you'll be able to forget him over time, easily.
- DON'T DELETE HIM FROM YOUR MEMORY
- if you want to forget him, don't act drastically. Just let him be with his life, and don't push your brain to forget him.
- don't delete his chat, photos or videos. If you delete it on time, you will regret and always want to find more about him instead of stop thinking about him.
- FORGIVE HIM
- when he broke your heart, forgive him and don't hold a grudge. Don't blame him or yourself. Just let it be and gone freely. This way will make you calm and can forget him easily because when you forgive him, you will not think about him.
That's all the tips I would like to share to you guys. Hope it can helps you and make you strong and more gorgeous. Again, DON'T EVER TRY TO FORGET HIM DRASTICALLY and ALWAYS BE POSITIVE. When you can move on and be happy, then you can delete everything about him in your memory. That way you can live happily and get a better life.
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